Monday, December 26, 2011

Single Parents in Crisis

For whatever reason there are single parents and custodial parents these days.  What support would truly help them when they are having a hard time?  I was a custodial parent and I remember having to take time off work when I was sick and as well when my child was sick.  At least with a two-parent household you can take turns missing work... but aside from lost wages, I bet these folks could benefit from someone checking on them and bringing them a cup of soup, some medicines, offering to run to the store for them, babysitting while a sick parent gets a nap, or shoveling their sidewalk if they can't.  Perhaps if you're retired you can babysit the sick child so the parent doesn't have to loose wages. 

This is a temporary crisis but a little help goes a long way.  If you're in this situation, what would be most helpful?  What other types of support does a single parent need?  Maybe, they need to be introduced to other single parents so they can arrange play-dates or have social time themselves without having to get a babysitter?  I remember it can be lonely without the right network of friends and support. 

Also, I know a single parent right now who really needs a tutor for her daughter in math and science.  She's 16 and struggling in school but her confidence level rises when she gets a good grade. 

If you know a single parent, try to help them with the details of their child's birthday party.  If you have time you could be a "helper".  It might make a stressful day be more enjoyable for the parent!  Blog back!

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